Today we are pleased to welcome a local web celebrity, Shawna Lee Coronado! A successful online entrepreneur specializing in green lifestyle living, Shawna Lee Coronado is also an author, locally syndicated newspaper columnist, blogger, energetic speaker, and environmental and health correspondent. Shawna’s business experience has helped her spread the positive health and simple living message she is so passionate about; she has readers in over 22 countries, over 10,000 followers on Twitter, appeared on national media, and is about to launch an international business built on “Making a Difference” for community on a global scale. Shawna was gracious enough to write about her journey to find the American Dream, and after you are done reading please go to www.thecasualgardener.com to learn more about Shawna’s inspiring message.
What is the American Dream? In my mind one phrase stands out – “the pursuit of happiness.” Many feel that living the American Dream is living wealthy; gathering an ever increasing pile of toys, things, and stuff which represents personal achievement and happiness. Yet, when you learn that over three billion humans – almost half the people in the world – live on less than $2.50 per day, you begin to see that “stuff” is ridiculously unimportant.
In fact, poverty on our globe is so predominant, an estimated 25,000 children die each day due to poverty and nearly a billion people entered the 21st century without the ability to read a book or even sign their names. Why, then, do we as Americans demand and crave so much all of the time? The pressure we put on ourselves to obtain more wealth, more stuff, more happiness has led to a society suffering from illness caused by stress.
Indeed, this mindset nearly killed me. In 1997, I was a single mother. Success and happiness were my personal goals and I, like millions of us every day, felt it had more to do with wealth and “stuff” than with personal satisfaction. However, stress was causing both my physical and emotional health to spiral out of control. Each day was controlled by chronic bronchitis and migraine headaches brought on by allergy triggered sinus infections and extreme stress. High blood pressure, constant back and head pain, as well as weekly doctor and emergency room visits were the norm. Insisting that my health was outside of my control, I demanded the doctors cure me with a pill, yet nothing worked.
Rebuilding my family became an important life-step. I remarried in 1999, and together with my husband purchased a home and continued to enjoy a six figure income. Although I grew up on a farm, it was not until the spring of 2002, at age 36, that I finally built a garden. Discovering nature was joyful and motivating. It made me feel better than ever. Surprised, I learned that happiness was not always about money.
Continuing to work long hours, my health worsened and I was diagnosed with a severe and life-threatening case of anemia. My asthma exploded as well, and one day I collapsed on the ground unable to breathe. When my boss demanded I spend more time at the office, I knew my life had to change or I was going to die. I walked off the job and never looked back. Riding home that day, I finally realized what my priorities were in life. It was not stress, or money, or stuff; it was love, and life, and family.
From that day on, nature became my refuge and allowed me to take control of my health. Blood pressure lowered, muscles strengthened, and I felt better emotionally as well as physically. Neighbors hired me to help them with gardening and simple living. Writing was the next step, and I soon became a locally syndicated newspaper columnist. Since the day I left my stressful job years ago, I have completely changed my life. My loved ones and health are the greatest parts of my life. Having a perfect house, lots of money, and lots of toys is not.
One day I opened my back gate and realized I had sixty feet of public walking path which thousands of people pass by every week. This inspired me to transition from gardening exclusively for myself, to building a community garden for my neighbors. Every time I walk out beyond the fence, I am rewarded with hugs. My neighbors are appreciative of my efforts and leave me love letters and gifts. Connecting with the community has made a powerful impression on me and now the garden stretches over two hundred feet and has taken over my neighbor’s property as well.
Making a difference within my community soon became as imperative to my health as eating right and getting exposure to nature. It was ultimately this community experience that inspired me to write Gardening Nude, a book about living a green and simple lifestyle. Downsizing and living greener, I am convinced, saved my life. While I still have health concerns, I have gone from taking over a dozen prescriptions per day, down to only two prescriptions per day. Every day I feel better, and my life is filled with family and love. My professional career of writing and keynote speaking is focused wholly on being able to inspire others to live better as well. Inspiring readers in 22 countries, I have a large online following. Living this new life, a successful life where I am making a global impact and helping others, is amazingly satisfying.
It is true that I live without as many extras as I used to have, but I feel far wealthier. Living life satisfied with what you have instead of forever wanting more is a far more rewarding way to live. I AM living the American Dream of happiness. It is not about being rich in money – it is about being knee-deep in family, community, hard work, love, and of course, garden.















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Thank you so much for sharing your story Shawna. You are a breath of fresh air. It’s amazing how fast your life can transform when you realize what is really important and stop trying to conform to the pressures that society puts on us today. You are an inspiration. I myself am trying to transform my life and love to hear success stories such as yours. Thanks again.
Lori
Thanks Simple Truths for letting me contribute with this blog – there has to be something said for living life happy.
Take care,
Shawna Coronado
Shawna’s story is so moving. A great example of how each of us can get back down to earth, help ourselves and our communities–and enjoy life!
The American dream, in the traditional sense, has evolved into an evil tool that wealthy business owners use to enslave the other 99% of us. Or maybe it’s always been that way. “Keep working as hard as you can, come in earlier, stay later, come in on weekends, eat your lunch at your desk…you’ll climb the corporate ladder and one day, *you’ll* be the one in charge, sitting behind this desk!”
Yeah, okay. It took me almost ten years to realize that’s a trick and life doesn’t work that way. The harder I worked, the *less* I got promoted. Why? Because the managers saw I was working so hard already, without having to dangle the carrot of a promotion in front of my face. In my experience, the people who get promoted are the people who do a halfway decent job, but have started to become bored and slack off. Promotions are used as a way to re-energize these unambitious people. And even then, the promotion ends up being a disappointment. “Hey, I’m promoting you to Assistant Department Manager. You now have twice the responsibility for a 5% increase in pay. Go celebrate!”
I’ll pass.
Like you Shawna, I’m living *my version* of the American dream. I’ve learned to eat 100% healthy, so now I don’t get sick nearly as often, which means I don’t have to be trapped into working a full-time job I hate just because of the health insurance benefits. I freelance, which means I get to choose my own hours and projects. I also learned to stop wasting my money on every stupid junky new gadget that comes out and instead, save my money and only buy what’s important. So now, I have a savings account…and I’m doing less damage to our environment because I’m throwing out less packaging, fewer plastic bags, etc. It’s all connected.
I’m living a simplified, flexible, productive life and am focusing on doing things I’m passionate about. That’s my version of the American dream.
It was a pleasure meeting you in Chicago Shawna, and it’s an even greater pleasure actually getting the chance to follow up and read some of your stuff. I love your take on the American dream and believe more people should just chill, focus and realize how great they have it already. A relaxed mindset can do more to help you enjoy life than anything else. Success is a lifelong pursuit…contentment can be had in an instant.
Great post! It is so true how the majority work at a job for all the wrong reasons. Life is way too short and valuable to not enjoy every second we have on this earth!
This is incredibly inspiring. I dream of living the simple life. It is already a lot simpler than most, yet I can’t wait until the day I get to downsize- instead of spending so much time maintaining that which I could live without. Glad that you have been able to get to this place in your life.
Thanks for your awesome comments. The one thing that has really made an imprint on me – is understanding and living a life where you are more satisfied with yourself. I am happy. How many people are? Happiness is a gift – and it’s all about seeing the world with a simpler view.
Best to all of you!
Shawna Coronado
WOW. Thanks for sharing your story.
I always enjoy reading your blogs and postings. It is great to learn more about the person behind them!
Gene
http://twitter.com/genewrites
Hi Shawna,
Thank you for sharing your journey.
You have definitely confirm for me that Happiness is truly a inside job…or as Henry David Thoureau
once said”If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams and endeavors,to live the life which he has imagined,he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.”
Namaste
Karen St.Clair
Thanks Gene and Karen – life is definitely about the journey, not the getting there.
Shawna Coronado
Your description of the American Dream both surprises and appalls me. Is that really what most people think these days? I’m grateful to be so out of touch.
I’ve always thought the American Dream was the ability to be independent and economically secure through one’s own small holding (farm or business and home). As Rob above says, and your own experience illustrates, our lives as workers for large corporations is closer to the serfdom of the Middle Ages than the Revolutionary America.
Glad you found your way out.
I am a neighbor who benefits from Shawna’s community garden. Not only was it very intriguing to watch as it came together but it served as motivation for me to spend more times outdoors. Now, I am able to look out my front window and see Shawna’s great work as well as look out my back window and see all the great work that I am creating because of Shawna!!
Lady, you have truly been an inspiration and have given me a refuge from the crazy world I in live in Monday – Friday. A million thank yous!!!!
Much gratitude and love
Linda R
Hi Shawna,
Great story. I believe the simpler we make our lives the more blessed it becomes. It is always great to connect with another organic gardener.
Randy
mss and Randy – thank you so much!
Linda – you brought tears to my eyes. The garden seemed like such a simple thing to me when I started it. Little did I know that people would leave me gifts, write love letters for me, and hug me when I walked out the back door. It’s more than a garden.
And living the life I live is not always easy, but IS always filled with the kind of satisfaction I thought someone else might find. Instead it was me.
If that’s not a miracle, I don’t know what is.
Love to all of you – and thanks for writing a comment for me.
Best,
Shawna Coronado